10 Questions with Rose Bilak

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1. What is one accomplishment in your life that still makes you smile?

Today, much of my energy goes into The Parking Foundation, which I created in memory of my late husband, Stephen. He spent 39 years serving the community with the Metro Toronto Police Service, and I like to think the Foundation carries that same spirit of helping others forward.

Knowing we can take even one small worry off someone’s plate makes me proud.

** Click the link to see the flyer of The Parking Foundation **

2. What do you hope to accomplish in the next 10 years?

I would love to see The Parking Foundation grow across Canada and support families at hospitals nationwide. My hope is that one day, people dealing with a medical crisis won’t also have to worry about the cost of parking. Seeing that happen would be incredibly meaningful.

3. What is something people might be surprised to learn about you?

I’m a tap dancer at heart! I’ve always loved music, movement and rhythm. I also love to cook and entertain. With my Italian background, food has never been just about the meal—it’s about gathering people around the table, laughing, talking and making everyone feel like family. I’m also a big fan of live theatre, where storytelling, artistry, and community come together in a way that inspires me.

4. What is one place you’ve travelled to that left a lasting impression?

Cosenza, Italy, where I was born. I returned two years ago and met relatives I had heard about all my life, as well as some I didn’t even know I had!

Standing in the very streets where my story began, surrounded by family, culture, and breathtaking scenery, felt deeply grounding. Being in Cosenza felt like I was truly embracing my roots, surrounded by family, culture, and the familiar warmth of a place that has always lived in my heart.

Being there made me feel very connected to my roots. I also attended an Italian wedding that lasted the entire day—full of music, food, family and celebration. It was unforgettable.

5. What is one tradition, recipe or family story you hope gets passed down?

Definitely our family traditions around food. Nonna’s lemon cake, her meatballs and our lasagna all hold so many memories.

I also hope we always keep a full fridge for unexpected company! In our family, there should always be enough to welcome someone to the table. And I hope our Christmas Eve traditions continue for generations.

6. What do you most enjoy about being retired?

The freedom. I love not having to rush or live by a strict schedule. I can enjoy a leisurely cup of coffee, play pickleball, have a long lunch on a patio and simply let the day unfold.

Best of all, I have more time for my granddaughter. Watching her grow and seeing her face light up when she sees me is hard to beat.

7. Describe your involvement within your community.

Community has always been important to me. Over the years, I’ve been involved with organizations including CARP, Mississauga’s Senior Council and Skål International, helping organize programs, events and volunteer initiatives. Of course today, I spend a lot of time with The Parking Foundation.

8. What message would you give to your 21-year-old self?

Trust the journey. Believe in yourself, stay close to your family and never lose touch with your roots.

I’d also tell myself not to rush life. Things have a way of arriving in their own time, so enjoy the moments along the way and be grateful for what you have.

9. What helps you stay positive during times of change?

My faith, gratitude and a belief that things have a way of working themselves out. When life feels uncertain, I try to focus on what I can be thankful for and on doing something positive.

The Parking Foundation gives me a strong sense of purpose too. Helping others keeps me grounded and reminds me to keep moving forward.

10. What does “home” mean to you at this stage of life?

Home is my sanctuary. It’s where I feel comfortable, peaceful and completely myself.

More than anything, it’s a place where friends and family can gather, conversations flow, and people feel welcome. To me, home isn’t really about the walls around you—it’s about the people, memories and sense of belonging inside them.

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